How to play pickup soccer
How to play pickup soccer.
According to the Internet, and hence conventional wisdom, soccer is a triumph of 1800 English Imperialism, with its earliest forms originating 2000 years ago in China. Today, it is the world’s most popular sport with a straightforward rule: don’t touch the ball with your hands unless it’s a throw-in, you are the goalie, or you are an idiot.
When I was a lad, children were enrolled in organized soccer. I can’t imagine why, but if I were to guess, parents were unwitting victims of a horrible marketing campaign extolling the virtues of organized sport. A pamphlet may have been handed out with three categories containing some buzz words:
1. Group life skills (Socialization of children): teamwork, competition, respect for peers and diversity, empathy, participation, cooperation, conflict resolution, following rules, communication, and making friends!
2. Individual life skills: discipline, perseverance, problem-solving, creativity, resilience, confidence.
3. Health: cardiovascular exercise, hand-eye coordination.
Who wouldn’t want their kids to understand all these things? They would be right on their way to being a perfect human!
The severe reality is a herd of miscast kids with crazy parents. If you have ever been to a child’s organized soccer game, there are usually two kids better than everyone else who have the ball 75% of the time. Individual life skills resulting from training sessions by motivated parents and aggression are generally rewarded on the soccer field. However, everyone usually gets a participation trophy at the end of the season!
However, pickup soccer is all the more fascinatingly intricate. There is no coach, no parents, no referee. It is a case study of self-governance.
The rules are simple:
1. Show up
2. Fit in
3. Be yourself
That was easy! You can play for free and reap all the same benefits.